Dear Editor:
I really, really hesitate in writing this letter. What began as a simple request last summer to the City of Hoboken to enforce the existing dog laws has become a famous Hoboken “back and forth” in the papers. I didn’t want to get caught up but it appears I keep getting dragged back in. I never thought I’d ever see my name mentioned in the papers so frequently, and I can honestly say I wish it was for something a little more sexy than dog poop.
It all began on July 14, 1999 when I sent a letter to the mayor and council with a list of requests on behalf of a local mother’s group. Among the other issues was a request for greater enforcement of the existing dog laws. That summer many mothers were fed up with cleaning poop off their children if they dared to venture into the grass even few feet. I myself had to clean poop out of the play areas seven times (three times off the slide!). The city quickly responded with signs to read “No dogs allowed in play area.” We were all grateful. All of a sudden I’m being publicly accused of not supervising my children and having my request called “ludicrous.”
What I find ludicrous is the notion by some “responsible, tax-paying, voting” dog owners that I am a bad mother for letting my child dare to run in the grass or designated play area after some other (always the other) dog owner was just out for a walk. According to this logic, every parent, sunbather and ballplayer should comb the grass before entering the park or oops sorry, your fault. Or perhaps children should be on leashes so the dogs can get their required exercise.
I also don’t understand this mantra of “taxpayer, property owner, registered voter.” Last time I looked taxes were not voluntary and everyone in Hoboken pays taxes. Are property owners more equal in Hoboken with more or better rights than renters. I don’t think so! (P.S. I’m not a renter and I certainly don’t think I deserve any different.) And lastly politics in Hoboken is not a spectator sport. In fact most people here get their voter registration on their 18th birthday like I did. So, I’m glad you vote, everyone should.
So, finally, I don’t hate dogs. I had a dog my entire life and she was a member of the family. However, as Hoboken is a rich, dense thriving community with many families choosing to stay, with limited open space, children come first. Although I feel for the dog owners and I hope something can be worked out to some satisfaction, my interest lies with the children of Hoboken!
Irene Sobolov